1. Make it surgical. Know what you want to say. Say it. And get out of there. Its a painful process like a surgery. But if its done by a surgeon the pain is minimized. There's no reason to elongate the process. There is no reason to make the wound sloppy.
2. Don't have a 'last date'. If you know what you want in some ways the other person can sense it. Say what you need to say, don't lead the other person on. In some ways the other person probably sees it coming, don't elongate their apprehension.
3. Pick up the check. If you have a last date or if you want to break up while out to eat or shortly after, pick up the check. The breaker upper should always pick up the check. There's nothing worse than buying a meal for someone who is about to break your heart.
4. Good Intentions. You have to realize no matter how good your intentions or how much you care about the other person they're going to be upset. Period. Don't expect a reasonable reaction.
5. Don't call. Don't text. Don't email.
Fun is Fun
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Done is Done
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