Reflections

We're back in Chicago and have had some time to decompress. The trip was a real success. We visited some family, saw a lot of interesting and weird roadside attractions, emersed ourselves in nature, and rode a sometimes majestic sometimes demanding 1,500 miles on the motorcycle. 

The main challenge that Nicole and I faced on the trip was the physically demanding nature of some of the stuff we were doing. Riding for long stretches of time, wind, cold, and varied hiking terrain. This, of course, effected our moods from time to time. What we did to head off any issues was just checking in with each other frequently. Stopping when we needed a snack or a hot drink, relaxing or napping if we needed it, staying connected and on the same page. We did some real relationship work and made some substantial progress. There were moments that really tested us and I think we came out of the whole experience a lot stronger as a couple, as partners. The two keys were communication and patience.

On the motorcycle the world is different. Time has less meaning. Your perception is heightened and you see a lot more. There are no distractions. You are simply there in that moment, wherever you happen to be. The weather and temperature are of utmost importance. You are in touch with your body and the landscape in a much more direct and meaningful way. The experience is unique and inspiring. But can be draining.

Coming back we weren't exactly relaxed or well rested. It took us a couple days to bounce back and now after some reflection I think both of us can say the trip was amazing. Something we won't ever forget, but something we might plan out more rigorously next time.