All gifts are good. Anyone who thinks different are simply inconsiderate. But there is always that distinction when someone gets something really good. Someone really nails that something in particular that was great for that certain person. Some thoughts...
1. Unexpected- It has to be unexpected. If the person can see it coming that automatically takes the impact of the gift down a peg. This is unfortunate because it takes anything on someones "x-mas list" out of the running for great gifts but if you ask for something then receive it some of the spontaneity is lost.
2. They Wouldn't Get It- People love getting something that they want but would never get for themselves for whatever reason. People will sometimes drop hints about this kind of stuff "I've always wanted..." or "I've always meant to get..." or "...when I get my tax return I'll buy..." You indulge someones guilty pleasure which they feel like they can't indulge, they'll love you for it.
3. Personal- Gifts related to someones interest or preferences are always big successes. Something involving an athlete, author, actor, artist, or musician that they love or identify with. They'd live it and it shows that you know them well. Or if the gift is related to your shared past. Any gifts that highlight the relationship or how well you know the person are guarantees.
4. Instinct- At the end of the day go with your gut. If you have that feeling or thought "You know what, ____ would really like this!" Get it. Then when you give it to them you can watch their face light up.
Giving gifts always feels good. But there's nothing better than that look of genuine surprise and joy when you give something that really hits home. Shocked euphoria.
No comments:
Post a Comment